Are Threesomes Worth the Hype?
Are you thinking about spicing up your love life with a threesome? Like most guys, you’re probably thinking that you’re about to have the time of your life. However, if you want to try this within the context of a relationship, you should weigh out the pros and cons first. If you’re not in a relationship, threesomes aren’t that complicated of an issue, however, if you want to get the best out of it, there are still some rules you should follow.
Types of Threesomes
There are different kinds of threesomes, ranging from all men, all women, two women and one guy, and vice versa. Depending on what you’re into, some of these may not be to your liking, so make sure that you’re comfortable with whatever you’re about to get into.
Threesomes, Relationships and Jealousy
Threesomes can get complicated if you’re in a relationship. There are many couples who think they’re up for experimenting with an additional lover and although this sounds great in theory, in practice, you may wind up regretting it. You have to consider what your partner will be comfortable with, so you can’t be selfish with your desires. If your partner doesn’t want to bring another woman into the bedroom, you can’t force the situation. However, maybe she’s interested in having another guy in the mix, so maybe you can compromise. Would it be such a bad idea for both of you to explore your fantasies on separate occasions? However, although you may be fine bringing another woman into your sex life, you might feel differently seeing your wife being pleasured by another guy—just something to think about.
Bringing another person in the mix can fuel resentment and/ or jealousy. It’s a known fact that threesomes have ruined relationships in the past because people thought they could handle the emotions that come along with them. Risks like sexually transmitted diseases need to be accounted for too. Anytime you add another player in the bedroom you’re taking risks, so, make sure to practice safe sex. A threesome isn’t a decision you should take lightly if you’re in a relationship. It’s advisable that you make an informed decision before taking any action.
The Curse of the Third Wheel
One of the things that can happen during a threesome is the risk of someone becoming a third wheel. Whilst this tends to happen a lot with those who are in a relationship, it can still happen if all of the participants are single. For instance, there may be chemistry between two of the individuals involved which may cause them to be drawn to each a little more, leading to the exclusion of the third person. You must also keep in mind that if you’re a guy, it’s easy to become the third wheel if you pop your cork early. Whilst you’ll be able to get hard again eventually, you may be forced to take a backseat. That being said, this doesn’t mean that you can’t provide pleasure to the women you have in your company.