Tips to Help You Last Longer in Bed
Don’t worry, you’re not alone. There are plenty of guys who think that they climax too quickly during the horizontal mamba. The truth is, in a lot of cases, the anxiety that guys experience doesn’t relate to what’s really going on. What we mean by this is that the guys in question aren’t cumming too fast, however, they feel as though they are because they’re measuring themselves against an unrealistic standard, such as what they see in porn. Nonetheless, there are cases in which guys find themselves ejaculating far too quickly. If this is something that you’re experiencing, don’t worry, we’re here to help.
The Power of Anxiety
Whether you’re suffering from premature ejaculation or feel as though you’re not performing your best, these tips can assist you. The advice we’re about to give you will go a long way in regard to improving your enjoyment of sex. When it comes to providing sexual pleasure to another person, nobody wants to feel inadequate or ashamed. We all want to believe that we’re rockstars in the bedroom and that nobody can hold a candlelight to our sex-game. That being said, if this confidence is knocked, your ability to perform will be affected. If this happens, you may experience a loss of erection; once this occurs, you may find yourself trapped in an endless loop of being unable to become aroused.
Your fear and anxiety are what’s preventing you from getting hard, and the pressure you feel from your partner (real or not) will only add to this vicious cycle. If the cause for your erection loss isn’t a regular thing, what you’re experiencing may just be nerves. The best thing you can do is step away from the situation and regain mental control. Yes, it’s easier said than done, but its damn near impossible to get an erection once your sense of fear has been triggered.
Tip 1: Thick Condoms
Wearing condoms can increase the length of sex due to the levels of sensitivity being decreased. If regular condoms aren’t enough, using extra-safe condoms may do the trick; there are even condoms that deliberately lower sensitivity if you require them.
Tip 2: Foreplay
By engaging in foreplay, you’ll be able to control your urge to release. Whilst this may not happen for you right away, over time, you’ll be able to last longer once full-on penetration occurs. It may also not be a bad idea for you to cum before having sex. If you pop your cork during foreplay, you can use other methods to pleasure your partner until you’re ready for sex. If you’ve recently ejaculated, you’ll be able to hold out for a longer once you get to the main event.
Tip 3: Distraction
If you don’t have much experience with sex, you may be blowing your load early because you’re simply far too excited. Try thinking about something else, like what you had for dinner or a film you recently watched. Be careful when doing this though because you run the risk of taking yourself out of the moment entirely.
Tip 4: Edging
Orgasm denial or edging, as it’s more commonly known, can increase your sexual stamina. Bring yourself close to climax and then stop, pull out if you have to and go down on your partner in order to keep her excited. This is a method that’s best used by those who have a little experience because it takes a lot of will power for a guy to stop when he’s about to burst. However, if you’re able to do this, you’ll find that when you eventually cum, it’ll be a super-explosive experience.
Tip 5: Viagra
If you’re having trouble staying/ getting hard, there’s always Viagra. However, before you start taking such a supplement you should speak to your doctor as there could be unforeseen side effects.
Tip 6: Masturbation
Try masturbation every once in a while, if you don’t do so already. You can even try doing it with one of our chat girls who’ll be more than happy to help you improve your sex game.
If the reasons for you having premature ejaculation problems are not medical or deeply psychological, there are ways for you to overcome it. That being said, if this is a problem that worries you or has been going on for a while, there’s no shame in seeking medical/ professional advice. Your sex life is important, so if there is anything you can do to improve the quality of it, it’s up to you to do what’s in your best interest. If anyone tries to shame you for it, send them to us, we’ll set em’ right.