How to Talk Dirty Without Feeling Silly
If you feel embarrassed about talking dirty, remember, you’re not alone in thinking this. People from all over the world are embarrassed by their desire for sex which makes it difficult for them to vocally express their wants. The art of being able to talk dirty without feeling silly means learning how to normalise your lusty lingo so that it doesn’t feel that awkward. If you’re able to accept the fact that you’re a sexual being with wants and desires, you’ll be well on your way to improving your sex talk game.
Unleashing Your Sexual Nature
We all have a sexy side that likes to come out and play when we’re feeling naughty. What you want is to be able to tap into your wild side whenever you feel like it. Think about all of the times you’ve been aroused and had your inhibitions lowered. During those moments, you’d more than likely be fine with saying all sorts of perverted/disgusting things. So, how can you get yourself into that mindset at the drop of a hat?
Even if you’re not very vocal when it comes to sex, there’s probably an inner dialogue that plays in your mind. Why not try saying it out loud the next time you’re knocking boots; once you’re able to do that, you’ll find it easier to talk dirty over the phone. If jumping into sex chat is too much, you can start off by telling your partner how amazing she looks and how much her outfit turns you on. From there, she may ask you about the things you’d like to do to her if she were standing next to you. Remember, sex talk is a two-way street, so let her get involved in the madness too. It won’t be long before your conversation takes a dive into the depraved.
The Use of Profanity
The use of bad language can also be a huge turn on for a woman, especially if you’re able to speak with authority. Speaking with authority requires you to be unapologetic about what you want, you’ll be able to hear your mate get wet if you do it right.
A simple one-liner like, ‘You sound fucking sexy,’ can work wonders when engaging in a bit of dirty talk. It’s not always about what you’re saying but the way in which you’re saying it. When it comes to phone sex, it’s all about letting your imagination run wild.
Making Use of Your Senses
Erotic novels are a favourite amongst women because it allows them to use their imagination. When you’re talking dirty over the phone, in person, or via text messaging, try to engage her senses. To do this, rather than simply telling her how sexy she sounds or feels, why not describe how her scent or taste of her nimble body gets you off? You don’t have to be so direct when talking dirty to your lover. Instead of saying something like, ‘You make me horny, I want to fuck you.’ Why not try a phrase like, ‘I’m losing myself to the thought of you climbing on top of me so that I can slide myself inside of you?’ We’re not going to win any Oscars for that script, but you get the point. At the end of the day, practice makes perfect, so get started today and see what changes you can make.