Things You Should Never Say After Sex
Pillow talk is all very well and good but there are some topics that should be avoided at all costs. Sure, the sex may be over, but it doesn’t mean that the things you say won’t kill the mood; you don’t want to talk yourself out of a second-round do you?
Talking About Ex-Partners
Any questions or comments regarding their ex-partner, should be avoided. Some guys want to bring up the topic of ex-lovers because they’re fishing for compliments. It’s no secret that guys love to hear that they were better than the last guy that a girl slept with. However, the truth is, you may not get the response you wanted, and if the girl in question had a bad experience with her ex, you run the risk of bringing up negative emotions. Speaking about someone’s ex is bound to open up a can of worms that’s best avoided. What may be even word is that the question could make her think about how much better the sex was with her ex.
The Topic of STD’s
Anything that relates to sexual health is better off talked about way before any form of intimacy occurs. Bringing this up immediately after having sex could make the girl feel like you hold a certain view of her; maybe you see her as a slut, at least that’s what she could wind up thinking. The golden rule is to always use a condom until you are sure about their sexual health; however, even then there’s nothing that says your long-term/ casual partner isn’t sleeping with other people.
Stating That You Have Other Places to Be
Saying that you have to leave straight after sex can be seen as quite rude, especially if was the first time with a new partner. It could leave the girl feeling used or wondering what she did wrong to make you want to leave so soon. If you are short on time, it’s best to let the girl know beforehand so that she doesn’t mistakenly take offense to your actions once you’ve got what you want.
Declaring Your Love
Whatever you do, don’t declare you love for a woman after having sex with her. If it’s a woman that you’re in a relationship with, sure, go right ahead. However, if it’s a casual partner, the last thing you want to is blurt out how much you’re falling for her; chances are, this will come off as needy and desperate. Whenever you’re in a casual relationship with a woman, most of the time she’ll let you know if/ when she’s ready to take things to the next level.
Comment on Her Body
It’s no secret that a lot of women have a number of insecurities regarding their body. So, the last thing you want to do after seeing them naked is comment their body type. Unless you have something encouraging to say, keep your mouth closed, it’s your best bet.